First of all, I think this thread should be taken down BEFORE it becomes source of lashon hara.
That being said, I will just say that the SY(rian) community IS a SYRIAN Jewish Flatbush community, it is NOT a stam sefardic community. If your wife is Moroccan, she will fit in with the general Sefardic community, but probably NOT with the SY community.
Ok, mods, now you can end this thread.