It is not up to you to have this discussion with him. It is up to your husband to tell him. Obviously, since he is NOT married he lacks the social skills he would have gained had he been. Your husband has to politely tell him that the two of you really enjoy his company but the two of you need alone time as well, so he should pick a night that he would like to share your company and that will be his night to join the two of you. And when it is time for him to leave, your husband needs to say, “we had a great time and we look forward to your next visit but right now we have to start settling down for the night, so we can wake up with the kids, or be up in time to start our morning routine.” or whatever you think is appropriate.
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