Aries I’ve been a lurker here for a while and enjoy your comments usually but your post which implied that most yeshiva boys are molested was most out of order to say the least. I was in the yeshiva world until my Chasuna and beyond but never saw, experienced or was aware of any such abuse. And nor are any of my friends who between us were in many yeshivos! Be careful what you say and write, especially in public.
Chana your OP was very well written. Well done. But while most people would not ignore a crime committed before their eyes, the more subtle knowledge that something is going on that should not be that you have not witnessed yourself is very different and is what seems to have happened in these many but individual alleged cases.