Reply To: My friend, the shadchan, and his issue(s)

I agree with “RC” and really have nothing much to add except to remember that dating is NOT a game and needs to be taken seriously. Both parties have to respect the other and take their feelings into consideration. How would he and his mother feel if they made all the arrangements and bought the tickets and 2 hours before the flight SHE called it off? Once you set up a date you go through it like a mench and see where it takes you. If you can’t be mentchelech about that, then the least you can do is man up and make the phone call to break it off yourself.