Firstly, there is the gemara that women drinking results in growing mustaches. “
Isn’t that supposed to be what happens when a woman drinks the HAVDALAH wine?
I think women who drink hard liquor (except for an occasional mixed cocktail like a pina colada, at a simcha, or a glass of wine) tend to look a little trashy and unrefined. I know it sounds very chauvinistic, but it’s how I feel. I don’t much care for guys who get drunk, either, but when a woman gets smashed it is SO much worse. I think the tznius aspect does become an issue. Drinking lowers our inhibitions.