before I went to sem I asked my LOR if I could wear pink and purple men’s button down shirts because I was having trouble finding tznius ones that were women’s. He said if it buttons the men’s way then no.
In high school this question came up about pajama pants and the Rov said that if they have hearts and flowers on them or if they are pink and girly then girls can wear men’s pants but otherwise no.
This is what I was told.