miritchka -“This issue bothers me too. I believe college is important and should be an option to all. Why would a BY or Yeshiva discourage their students from going?!”
Because it’s against their Haskofah!
“One of the reasons BY and Yeshiva is there is to teach the child torah and show them the right way. They shouldnt dictate a persons life, they should encourage the right way and show them the positive way to go about things.”
That’s part of their job -telling what to do in life!
“If a BY or Yeshiva is worried about a child changing because of college, could it be that they arent doing a good job?!”
Maybe telling kids to stay away from college is their Job?
I’m not against college personally, but at least I understand their point of view!