i love coffe -“They will ask, “why isn’t he in Yeshiva?” But the moment they need a psychologist they would go running after him… (Double standards?)”
In a way it is a double standard; and in a way it’s not. It’s not because they would just say no one should go to college and I’ll use an Ehliche Goy for my Doc, shrink, etc. But if a Jew became one already and is basically Frum -I’ll use him.
(Remember, this is what they’d say, not necessarily what I personally hold.)