Ilovecoffe, you make a very good point. If you don’t notice exactly what was done, you can say something like “it looks different in here since I left, what did you do, honey?” or something like that. Or since you know that he tries to help you, make a mental note of how you leave the house without expecting anything. Write some things down in the car like “dishes, laundry, beds” and then before you leave the car glance at your notes, it might help you to notice when you walk inside.
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