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No. Because that is something the girl can ask the boy herself if she cares and one isn’t supposed to say something that the person themselves won’t deny or tell, for example if u know a boy is on some sort of medication but will tell the girl about it at the right time (most rabbanim say 3rd date that’s between getting to know the person and liking the person) then one isn’t supposed to say because that may stop them from going out and in reality the girl may be ok with it once she has the full picture.