Reply To: When asked Shiduch info: Do I have to tell the girls side that my friend smokes?

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December 23, 2011 6:05 am at 6:05 am #838321
RABBAIM
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Any info which may be seen as negative we must answer when asked, but should not offer info.

Be careful if you are doing the asking- ask DOES HE SMOKE AT ALL? Do not ask IS HE A SMOKER as that is inviting interpretation.. What is a smoker?? cigs, 10? A pack?? Two?? Fell in once…….. and she got married. and he quit.