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davidz
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real-brisker: “The girl can ask him herself if he smokes.”

That’s exactly the issue at hand….. there are certain things which should not go as far as having the girl ask about a certain issue, but rather the shadchan tell the girl beforehand…. How unfair it is to have girls go out with boy after boy, only to get burned out due to the fact that they find issues which individuals found unimportant to mention.