No RB , I won’t point it out to you in the SA because you will only interpret it the way you want to read it in order for you to be right. Like I said before, you really need to discuss this with your RAV so you can hear the truth from his own lips, face to face. You need to hear the truth on this matter face to face from your own RAV and you need him to explain to you why you are wrong and misguided on this issue.
My mother a”h used to say “if ten people call you a shiker your a shiker”. Do you know what that means? If ten people call you a drunk, you are a drunk! You keep arguing your point and everyone keeps telling you that you are wrong and you refuse to see it. Therefore the only way you will accept the truth is if you hear it from your own RAV and he explains it to you. That’s it I am not debating this with you any longer. Please go speak to your RAV, seriously because the fact that you don’t understand how to do this mitzvah is very sad, the fact that you keep arguing how right you are is even sadder.