Hi PinkOcean88
I dont know the answer, but it seems you need to meet someone a cut above the rest, so that is going to take a little bit more time. It is possible the shadchen is not so clear is what kind of young man is compatible for you. Maybe clarify with them what you are running into.
Another thing in the shidduch game is that every one is putting out they are so wonderful. All the boys are on record as being tzadikim and the girls as very big in chessed..etc. And that is understandable. Such an important thing has people wanting the best for their children. But we all can find a letter of recommendation whether one is the brightest in their class or a monster who needs to grow up.
Dont give up on finding the correct life partner. It means a lot for generations to come.
I hope you and your beshert find each other very very soon and he is wonderful beyond your imagination!!
Hatzlacha!