And my point is – who cares?
So what if I think this is THE reason and he thinks that is THE reason and she thinks that is THE reason? Most of us in our everyday lives are not in the helping-kids-at-risk business anyway. If someone opines that a certain fault is the cause, then they will go and fix that in their own life. Eventually people will start to be mashpia on each other because each person will see the other working on a specific area, and the world will naturally become a better place.
So who cares? Let people have opinions. It won’t make things worse.