Hi Aries2756.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, there!
If I read you correct, you said it was “boys like you who helped drag girls down to that madreaigah”.
Stop the presses, pull over, call out the National Guard…
This topic is not specific to either of the genders.
Suffice it to say, do not think for a second there are not girls out there that can run circles around the guys with things that are not “kosher” out there on the street.
Being a bt guy, I incorrectly assumed that everyone was as pure as the driven snow. Sadly…very sadly..frum young ladies also want to play the tshuva card or the card that their avairos are erased on their wedding night, and do things we would never expect.
While such things are rarer than in the nonfrum world, they are going on now, as you read this.
’nuff said.