NY boys have been trained to think they are a commodity therefore they hold themselves on a higher madreiga and do not have to put themselves out. They have been taught that they should not travel oot to date but those girls who wish to date them should do the traveling. They will however consider a girl from OOT, like LA for instance, if she is very wealthy.
I’ll replace that will “all boys,” since almost all the yeshivos that guys date from are in the northeast.
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boys have been trained to think they are a commodity
Trained? They are a commodity. Who are you fooling- you need them more than they need you.