Blabla are you from OOT? If so, your reaction is understandable. However, to be fair, most parents are NOT looking for extra hassles when seeking shidduchim for their kids. the process is already annoying enough. If a shidduch comes from OOT, one should not reject it on that basis, but if one comes closer to home, it makes sense that those parents would consider that one first. Unfair to the OOTer? Probably. But still understandable. And I still feel the OOT person should be given a chance anyway. For someone in Chicago, NY is OOT.
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