HI jmj613.
If what you heard was true, that person has a very negative, overgeneralized opinion that she should keep to herself.
Anytime you hear someone speak so generally like that, you have to take what they say with a grain of salt.
Especially, if you think the girls were raised in that kind of family and culture, what does this lady mean to say they will “regret that kind of life”? Nonsense!
An opinion like that is not based on an individual circumstance and should not be spewed to everyone at large.
On the other hand, a girl should not think that if she marries someone who learns AND works, or learns and develops a career, that there is a problem with that. But hopefully the two will be so close they will not be influenced by what others tell them to think about each other.