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No doubt that there are women who abuse their power with regard to child vistation and other issues pertaining to their estranged husbands. “Control freaks” know no gender bounds. (I know sadly from personal experience since I am a male who gave my wife a Get promptly when she wanted it and now I am getting constantly manipulated in my quest to get the civil divorce.) However, I must stop you when you say “most Agunot only have themselves to blame”. I have no data to support me, but I am sure as one can be that the vast majority of Agunot are innocent victims in dreadful states. Therefore,we must support them in the fullest way, including Tefilla.
Perhaps you are equally a victim and my heart goes out to you. May Hashem show you mercy and that all your family issues should be resolved L’Tovah in a Mazel-dik time.