Eizena Kup, why did you choose that screen name? It speaks volumes.
I don’t think you are a chossan, I didn’t say or presume you are a chassan, that is your presumption and your own conclusion. You are the one that is quick to jump to conclusions. You are the one who presumes to know what I am thinking and is reading into my meanings. I simply said this is highly recommended book for Chassanim. There is a very good reason why Rabbonim recommend this book and that is to teach them the difference between men and women and the nature of both. I advised you to read it for the same reason.
I am NOT overzealous in defending womankind for any foe. That is your interpretation and what you choose to read into my posts. Yes men and women are different and they see things from a different sense of understanding, from a different perspective and from a different reference point. I was not bashing anyone I was explaining, on the other hand I was the one to get bashed for giving very sound advice which WIY did not agree with, not based on education or knowledge but based on what he felt was enough experience with his own friend.
I have a very high regard for upstanding men who are respectful of all others, many of which are regular posters here. However, I have lost respect for those who are disrespectful and continue to be without apology. I do my best not to belittle anyone and as a matter of fact and practice I stick up for those that others pick on. I have come to understandings with many that were generally on opposite sides of the fence and have learned to agree to disagree and learned that we don’t have to always be on the same page or even ever be on the same page but we still have to be respectful to one and other. So I don’t understand what you are talking about when you say that I am bashing anyone. As far as my “sagacious” advice is concerned. Maybe I will just keep it to myself for a while and just share it with those clients that seek me out. As was noted on another thread “free advice is worth what you pay for it”.