I have a “diffent” question about this.
How is it possible that a bas kol announces 40 days before but AZ says that not every girl has a guy?
Is it possible that a girl loses out because all the guys in the world are marrying younger girls? Do you mean to think that every marriage that happens today is the wrong one except for the ones where they are the same age and they get a “hechsher tzedek” from NASI?