“How is it possible that a bas kol announces 40 days before but AZ says that not every girl has a guy?”
Did I really??
“Do you mean to think that every marriage that happens today is the wrong one except for the ones where they are the same age”
Every marriage, of course not, Many marriages of course yes.
Is that a problem, of course not.
Just look around and see all the older singles many of whom b’derech hateva won’t be getting married. Sure seems like someone took their bas kol zivug….
For all PRACTICAL purposes the notion of the bas kol is irrelevant as no one will ever know who it was mentioned for them by the bas kol.
One can have a wonderdful marriage with a spouse who wasn’t in the bas kol, and one can have a rotten marriage with a spouse who was in the bas kol…
Now for a short haskafik lesson,
for whatever it’s worth.
my faith isn’t shaken by the notion that many people are married and raise wonderful familes despite not being married to their “basherte”,
It is challenging to accept that hashem’s plan was for hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of young women to be brought into this world and not have a chance to get married. If that is it, so be it but it would be hard to accept…..
alas… that’s not the emes… the emse is that we mortals have causes the problem… That’s based on the basic tenet of bechira…