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mommamia22
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I don’t understand what you are questioning. You said you had a hard time developing a kesher with him (even though objectively you like him). You attempted several times to ask a question or for clarification, to no avail. You’re questioning something about his ability to teach (or to understand a question) in that he gave you and your chavrusa different answers. The point of a rebbi is someone to teach you and to clarify info. He was unable to do this. A skilled teacher can help you learn how to phrase a question. It doesn’t sound like you made a mistake at all. Only, that, perhaps, you are regretting hurting his feelings because of making a change. I think kindness starts with yourself, though.