oomis1105:
“If you do not believe that this abusive behavior, there is nothing to talk about.”
Then this conversation is pretty much over. Guess we’ll just have to agree to disagree.
lesschumras:
“If a bochur arrived for an interview at a kollel/yeshiva, he would be told that if he chose to one day to dress in jeans and a tee shirt, it would be considered unaceptable and he would be sent home and be subject to dismisal. Why not do the same with smoking?”
Many, if not most, yeshivos do just that.