Not one bit. There is still ZERO mention or discussion about demanding more accountability from our boys.
I’ve posted this before, but I think its worth repeating:
We do not have an “older girls / age gap” shidduch crisis
What we have is an “under qualified / under motivated” boys crisis. In other words, a quiality / confidence crisis.
So the only logical choice for a 25 y/o boy,is to date a girl 5 years his junior. To do otherwise, would make him look foolish
Solve the quality / confidence crisis,and you “solve” the shidduch “crisis”
And you never will, as long as the yeshiva system stays in place. So tell me, who cares if the boy is 19 or 22, if the boy is just as underqualified?
Your issue is a general sociological problem, that men are just getting more stupid. Read the article I originally posted on the thread (prior to this). Google “the atlantic all the single ladies”.