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And if I had one point of rejection to that disgusting organization that stands out for me, as of late, it is the idea that a young lady of 23 has to have a value and price tag placed on her, for that very sole reason, (to the tune of about a thousand dollars) in comparison to someone 21 or 22. That, to me, is the definition is disgusting and no solution at all. It is a deli counter approach to the sanctity of family life. I suggest this organization is eroding the sanctity part of family life.
Hello BTGuy 🙂
And I agree with the idea that a price tag based on age is repulsive (as if it has not already happened without NASI). However, your statement of:
this organization should be ashamed for putting an actuarial outlook to human beings and family life.
IMHO is incorrect. Quantifying the problem is critical to finding the solution. Now your opinion may be that there is no problem, or that you do not like any solution even though there is a problem. I don’t know what you see, but I see too many girls who want to get married (or even date) that are just getting older (and I’m talking about 28-32, not 21 year olds). I see that as a problem.