We need to pin down why there are much less older boys available to date, than older girls
Age gap
what we can do about it
Encourage closer in age shidduchim.
That’s what NASI is all about, as well as this initiative. If shadchanim, such as yourself, would get on board instead of being negative about it, it would be more likely to work.
Even granting that most people won’t go for it, your Tylenol moshol is still imperfect. Whereas Tylenol only relieves pain, if the age gap is closed even slightly, that means, statistically, fewer unmarried older girls. For those girls, even if few, it’s better than acetaminophen; it’s a cure. A better moshol might be a cure which has a 1% better chance of success than any other cure. For those few who survive, it’s quite significant.