soliek.
Sorry, its actually the modern orthodox who show a blind eye to sexual realities by ignoring what really happens when you allow boys and girls to mix and give them unfiltered access to the internet.
Underexposure by the more frum is not a denial of reality but an understanding that privately done aveiros when they become public create a huge chillul hashem and make people more likely to do aveiros if they think they are not the only ones.