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“I don’t need support – I need revenge! Oh and btw, not on my ex -I don’t hate her. On all the people who caused the divorce -I want revenge. “
do you still love her? Is there anyway of making amends and getting married again…-I know pple who have gotten remarried with each other, and the relationship was much stronger than it had been the first time round.. Is there any hope for this. maybe if these pple are crazy enough to convince her in regards to her personal life maybe someone can talk to her now, if it will benifit both of you. It sounds like you are really strong on the issue, when there’s a will theres a way..-if there’s no anger and resentment on both ends, maybe theres nothing wrong with trying each other out for a second round.. pple change. maybe she has too?? Maybe she’s feeling the same way you are.. Don’t worry about everyone else. eth comes from shamayim, by being angry at pple you are betraying your faith and trust in the aibishter. pple have no power, noone can do anything to help or harm you other than hashem. Whatever hashem has in store for you is for the benifit of your very being, because he loves you and cares for you. this might sound abserd, however Most of the time after a divorce the one one insisted on the divorce misses the company of the other spouse more than the one that was happy to stay married.. no matter how intricate the matter was that caused the contastrophy to come about.