Indeed.
In the meantime we should focus on those things we DO agree on – such as shabbos, kashrus, and other non-controversial issues.
The worst part of it all is that there are people who do not want to speak to others, or, worse, impose on their children who they may speak and play with – based on “he’s Zionist” or “he’s against the Medinah”. Since when does THAT determine who we are?!
It is, in my eyes, certainly a very important topic. However, that which binds us together is, or at least, it SHOULD be, much stronger.
People like the NK extremists or the Zionist extremists who oppose them, forget this and live lifes of hatred.