I will say this much
If Ch”V someone came to you personally while your close family member was brain dead and said that you could save their mother of 8 kids who was very very sick.
Zdad: I kind of resent your implications. I do believe in Judaism, and I do have moral convictions. And I do hard things sometimes because of them.
You seem to assume that whenever there is a hard decision to make, we will always choose the easier way. That simply is not the case- historically, or in the present- and it is quite bizarre that you assume that.
(I’m debating whether to elaborate about a certain snow shoveling thread.)