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Being a Jew is an interesting adventure. We find ourselves in different “life squares”. I find sometimes that we tend to focus on our closed doors or that we have less open doors than others. Because we are individuals and our lives have been tailor made for us we have to believe that after trying our best to acheive what are called “The G-dly Goals” like…we find that we are unable to. Of course this doesn’t prevent us from forfilling other G-dly Goals but what happens is that other people might not let us appreciate the doors that have been left open for us and then we don’t feel so positive about them. For example the fact that you’re not married means you can do more community work or learn. There is so much meaning in the life of a Jew. Even our breath has meaning. Good Luck in your search. You’re part of the “Chosen People” (Baruch Atah Hashem Shay Lo Asahni Goy).