“Or are you saying that people who grow up frum should think about life and Judaism, and make a personal connection with it? I do that all the time.”
Yes. But what I was trying to say was that I don’t think that someone who has always been totally frum and always dedicated to being a Shomer Torah and Mitzvos could ever really appreciate Judaism in its entirety. They have only tasted Torah. That’s all they know.
That sounds to me like a different point. It sounds now like you are saying we cannot know how special it is to be frum.
That doesn’t bother me. Does it bother you?
And what does that have to do with choices? I thought you were saying that we are not properly serving Hashem because we haven’t made a choice–to which I responded that I have made a choice.