Reply To: guilt in saying no.

Thank you all for the words of encouragement. =Just to answer some questions:

From the beginning there were several things that bothered me, but I always like to give the other party a second chance and there were positive qualities. However,for several reasons it was just not shayach. After each date, the other party made it very obvious that they enjoyed and would very much like to continue. I feel bad that they showed their cards- or put their heart on their sleeve and then I said no. I guess that’s just life. I have no regrets. I just feel bad. I hope they are not “killing” themselves over the last date , trying to figure out why it was a no go and if they did something wrong. You also never know what the shadchan told them and I guess there is no way to being dropped without pain.