since all money and possesions she holds is really halachicly owned by her husband?
Of course, that’s not universally true either.
She has the option of saying “I’ll keep my money and support myself” — which, given the state of things in portions of the yeshivish world, would be a good deal for her.
And, lastly, it’s *her* option. He can’t unilaterally override her decision to do this.
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