Reply To: New news story- OTD Lakewood woman with 4 kids wants custody

I sense shock and distaste for the question I asked.

Forgive me. Possibly Im not as smart as all of you who are shocked. Only Hashem knows if this question should be considered shocking.

Ch”v had this happened in your family, wouldnt you second guess and say “Perhaps I should have seen this coming because…..”.

Are you all 100% sure that a Gadol wouldnt be able to determine a pattern in OTD people and thereby prevent much heartache for the spouse and whatever children are born from a marriage where one decides to go OTD.

Lets not be VIZE GUYS. Maybe there is a way to determine the likelihood, and lessen heartache!

Would less heartache be so terrible?