you have to be comftorable with her past but you should also try to put it behind you and look at her now. if she is able to get past it and move on you should be able to also. it doesnt mean shes bad. it doesnt mean shes not stable. it doesnt mean shes gonna go back there. you would have to do lots and lots of checking to make sure shes really past that stage and wasnt “physically” harmed (you know what I mean) but otherwise I dont see a reason to make a blanket statement that you dont wanna go out with a girl who was once off.
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