sea shells: “I suggest you wish Adorable a heartfelt mazel tov! she’s B”H over and done with the parsha, so she probably knows more about it than you do. “
Wow that was quite a statement! First of all, warmest mazel tov wishes adorable! Second, as a married woman of a few years, and as a friend who worx on shidduchim all the time for my friends and others, i have to say that i do know quite a bit about this.
kissthecook: Gotta agree with you. I cant stand the labeling. just because a guy wears colored shirts,or a girl dyes her hair, (not referring to colors like blue or green) or a guy doesnt wear a black hat, or a girl with short/long hair doesnt mean they are off or different! its the inside that counts! And you mentioned that you are redt girls that are OTD, sometimes ones basherte takes a detour, whether its a spiritual turn or emotional turn or maybe just taking a long time to get to their bashert. But they WILL get there!
hatzlacha!