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Its important to understand that when ur looking for a person thatll best help you in ur ovodas Hashem (daas yachid) its the same person that you really like and enjoy.

A healthy marriage has enough tests and tough times, make sure ur marrying someone you really like and enjoy being around. Yes, make sure you like they’re appearance its important. These things aren’t a stira to helping you in ur avodas Hashem rather, they are the assisters to it. Hashem created marriage to be a wonderful union where husband and wife become as close as two humans can, make sure this person is a good candidate for that. Now, you’ll feel closer after ur married and with time it will increase, no doubt. Make sure however, that you feel the initial attraction to this person where you can see it getting even better and stronger.