Sam2- that’s the point, isn’t it ? IF YOU”RE HONEST WITH YOURSELF. As we generally are not – if you disagree, I have to assume you have no sifrei mussar at home, nor have ever learnt any – we have a problem.
Welcome to planet earth after cheit Adam harishon, buddy – there’s a reason the eitz hada’as is called “Ilana d’Sfeika”, The Tree (of) [that creates] doubt, by Chazal.