” The boys …being brought up beautifully. “
Bnei Torah, with a love for learning? For sure.
Ready to face the rigors of running a family? And earning a living? And are on par with the girls of the same age range?
Not so sure.
Still, if I am mistaken, please, by all means, point me in the right direction. I have several friends who are desparately seeking just such boys for their highly accomplished daughters.
So far, all I see are empty suits. And come Pesach, we wil be getting back several plane-loads more of under-qualified boys. Each seeking the best “deal” that momma / poppa were able to secure for them.
And the girls? Each one, more prepared than the next. Goal oriented, and a clear vision of how to get there. Oh, and on top of that, they ALSO have a deep love for Torah.
So, Gabi, unless you are taking about a community other than the BMG (and its feeders) that I’m talking about, I truly to not see how you can say what you do with a straight face.