cherrybim:
It’s the mindset!
Instead of being MEN almost ready to begin their own families, they are treated by society as BOYS. Instead of thinking hard about what they TRULY want to be when they start their own family, they repeat the starry eyed kollel forever response.
For some odd reason no one wants to wake them up that to make it in life you have to be able of working like productive members of society, any kollel that is not makpid on shemiras sedorim frankly has no right to be supported. Kollels must have policies similar to corporate America.
gavra_at_work:
We have had our share of misunderstandings. Please clarify whether you were truthful or sarcastic.