These people’s kids will not end up “messed up” because they dont know how to fit in modern orthodox communities.
nO YOU DIDNN’T GET MY POINT, i was saying these pple that make the groisse jump from being irreligious to a chasssid/altra yeshivish thier kids don;t fit in, as a result they go searching, and they don’t belong in either sect. some of which become MO wanna be’s, but they lack the education and that particular upbringing that the rest of the MO’s posess as a result they are not accepted in either sect. If you read my second post there’s a solution to this crisis.