OneOfMany-
I stand by my comparison in reply to Sam. His comment,comparing the subject to pretzels is wrong.
The ger way of life was being ridiculed by this forum, which is wrong. It’s not being touted as being the standard for others to follow. Proof is that most still have no idea what that standard is. (Sorry to say, but I doubt you have a clear picture.)
Still, I believe it’s fair to say that living as a porush, even wrongly so, has more “intrinsic” kedusha and tahara then other lifestyles.
I’m not sure why this topic is being discussed at all. It is a very private matter. I held out posting almost a week because of this.