To everyone bashing Gerrer chassidim: If husband and wife both agree to and want this lifestyle, then why do you even care? It’s their own personal life and you don’t have any right to interfere.
I’m not bashing them. Heck, a few months ago, there was another thread where I basically said the same thing you did.
My dog in this fight is not that Gerrer couple shouldn’t lead the lifestyle they like. My interest in this argument is in the aspect that was presented that my home is lacking in kedusha and tahara on the basis of the fact that I actually touch my wife once in a while.
The Wolf