this article is indeed very sayd. however, it does work both ways. a young man should work on his appearance as well. his shoes should be shined, his clothes clean and pressed. if he is clean shaven then he should show up freshly shaved. if he has a beard it should be well trimmed and/or clean and combed. his hair should be washed and combed as well.
he should not come looking like he fell out of bed and found his clothes in the hamper.
nose jobs ,teeth straightening and contact lenses or stylish glasses should apply to both male and female as should the entire equation.