Of course good and bad means aqccording to human perception. But tnat’s part of the plan.
I asked you why we’re required to make different brochos.
You only grow from a situation if you take it to heart. If it doesn’t bother you, and you just go on,knowing that its all for the best, then it won’t affect or change you. You just Have Emunah, and ignore what Hashem thows your way, ‘cuz you’re “above it”.
Let me stress that my intention is to feel the pain, “while” believing its all for the best. That’s called “mevorecl aal ha’rah – b’simchah”.
You don’t have to take anything I say. Just start doing some learning, and see what you find.