Nobody likes hospitals. Personally, I think that if there was better advocating on patient’s behalf people would feel more comfortable in a hospital setting.
What we need to do is to educate people as to what their rights are as a patient and to know that if something doesn’t feel right, they or the accompanying person should speak up and advocate on their behalf.
Before you choose a doctor, set up an appointment with him/her and prepare all the questions about their mehalach in medicine to see if that suits you. If you’re not comfortable find a different doctor. Don’t use them because everyone else uses them.