OK, different point of view here- If hes chilled and isnt specifically looking to get married lets not push him? Marriage takes maturity and the desire to make it happen. If thats not there then dating will just be a waste of time best case scenario. (And there r many more worse case scenarios swirling around in my head, let me tellya) “
You make a very good point, for sure. But I personally was addressing the question of the 14 year old, with the presumption that the older brother is not necessarily NOT looking to get married yet, just isn’t very proactive about it.